* rebase Q-generic FA vec body from 01dc93607 (#23114)
* add 53 f16 (Q,NE) flash-attn vec instantiations (vec 80 -> 133)
* add FA vec (Q,NE) tuning table + dispatch wiring + SMEM cap fallback
* add FA vec (Q,NE) perf sweep
* fill tuning result
* fold family table into a per-family representative SKU
* refactor tuning result format
* extend FA vec tuning to quantized KV caches
* sync fa vec tuner bucketing with runtime, use pointwise tuning regret
* update tuned table
* format and cleanup
* prefix fa_vec tuning procs with ggml_backend_metal_tuning_, drop unused fa_vec_override_active